Becoming sexually active again is a challenge for many men who re recently divorced.
It becomes even more of a challenge when your ex-wife is the first and only person you ever had sex with.
The challenge here is greater because of at least one of two beliefs you had are broken or need to be broken.
- Your Wife is the Only Woman You Will Ever Have Sex With
- Your Wife is the Only Woman Who Will Ever Have Sex With Me
The first thing you have to do is realize that your ex is your ex and she isn’t coming back. You more than likely did too much to try and keep her given that she was your first and now it is time to move on. Your next choice is what type of future will you have with women?
- Will you choose to wait yet again for “The One” and only have sex after you are married again!
- Will you choose to engage in meaningless sex and get that out of your system and perhaps at a later date decide if being in a committed relationship is something that you want to do!
No matter what you decide, the only certainty in your life right now is the pain that you feel. You can choose to learn and grow from that pain or conceal it in another woman and find yourself feeling the same pain you feel now only worst because instead of one woman it will be two.
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